My Coaching
How I can help
When I was planning my own wedding, I quickly discovered that organising a wedding wasn't quite as straightforward as I had imagined. As a neurodivergent woman, my brain was constantly full of ideas, possibilities, decisions and a million little details. I had a vision of what I wanted, but I also found myself getting caught up in the pressure of getting everything right, trying to do too much myself and occasionally forgetting that I was supposed to be enjoying the experience!
I know what it's like to feel overwhelmed by all the decisions, to question whether you're doing things the right way, to struggle with asking for help and to find yourself getting caught up in what other people expect rather than what you actually want. And I've come to realise that I'm certainly not alone in that.
Then I stopped trying to plan like everyone else and started planning like me. I decided that I needed to really understand what was important to me, what I wanted my day to feel like and there was no stopping me then. I’m here to be that for you.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to promise you a completely stress-free wedding planning experience. Life doesn't work like that, and weddings certainly don't! But I can help you understand what's causing the overwhelm, work through the things that are holding you back and find practical ways to make the experience feel more manageable.
Think of me as your straight-talking, slightly bossy, cheeky fairy godmother in your corner. I'll help you cut through the noise, challenge those wedding 'shoulds' and remind you that you don't have to do everything, please everyone or be anyone other than yourself.
Because I want you to arrive at your wedding day feeling prepared, knowing what you want and confident that you've created a day that is genuinely, authentically YOU.
So How Do We Start?
There isn't one right way to start, and there certainly isn't a requirement to jump on a phone or video call if that's not your thing!
I know that everyone processes information, communicates and learns differently. What feels like an easy first step for one person might feel like a huge hurdle for someone else. So I've made sure there are different ways for us to work together.
Not a fan of phone or video calls? No problem. You can get in touch by email or message, tell me a little about what you're looking for and we can take things from there. No pressure, no awkward small talk and definitely no need to have everything figured out before you contact me! The button below takes you to a simple form where you can tell me exactly what you're looking for and your preferred method of communication.
Prefer to work things through in your own time? My online course, The Calm Bride Blueprint gives you the flexibility to learn at your own pace, dip in and out of the modules and put things into practice when you're ready. No keeping up with anyone else and no pressure to work through everything at once. Certainly, no pressure from me.
Want a little more personal support? One-to-one coaching gives us the opportunity to focus on what's going on for you, work through the things that are causing the biggest challenges and find practical solutions that fit your circumstances.
Or perhaps a mixture of both? You can combine the Blueprint with individual coaching sessions, giving you the flexibility of self-study alongside someone in your corner when you need a little extra help.
The important thing is that we find a way of working together that feels comfortable, manageable and right for YOU. That might mean written communication, shorter sessions, time to process things before responding or adapting how we work to suit your personal and sensory needs.
No two brides are the same, so why should the support they receive be any different?
Let's find your way to a calmer, more confident wedding planning experience.
The Calm Bride Blueprint
Self-paced learning. Your time, your space, your pace.
One-to-one Coaching
Personalised support focused on your challenges, priorities and goals.
Best of both
Combine self-study with personal coaching when you need extra support.
Now It's Up To You!
If you’ve resonated with any part of my story and you feel like you just need a bit of help to find a whole new version of yourself. This is your sign to start. You’ve got nothing to lose, you can book a free discovery session today and take the first step to turn your social media into a full-time income.
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